It’s my one rule for this blog: I’ll discuss absolutely anything except politics. It’s not that I’m apolitical. It’s just that if I started discussing politics, I’d never stop, and my blood pressure would go through the roof. Thus, I try never to post anything overtly political, or even to let my political leanings creep into my posts.
However, I do permit myself approximately one face-to-face political discussion per month. I enjoy them in small doses, and thanks to Lopressor my blood pressure can usually take that much. At tonight’s Pittsburgh BlogFest I actually ended up in two. I’m not going to actually talk about the topics of conversation, because I don’t discuss politics on this blog. (See above.) However, the way in which the conversations evolved was itself interesting.
Firstly, let me apologize to anyone at the BlogFest who was annoyed by the first (knock-down drag-out) discussion. I freely admit that I got carried away. Also to my esteemed opponent, if he is reading — I’m sorry I didn’t give you a better debate: my skills are indeed rusty, and you deserved better.
The interesting thing here is that I encountered someone who’s ideas seemed to be diametrically opposed to my own, and fell into a style of interaction that quickly transformed the discussion into a debate. Rather than gloss over our irreconcilable differences and discuss the common ground from which we might actually learn something, we instead fell into well-worn arguments and, I suspect, each came away with no new insights. My esteemed opponent was a skilled debater, but I honestly don’t believe that he presented any arguments that I hadn’t encountered and considered before. (He might, perhaps, claim that I am simply closed-minded, and I must simply hope that he is wrong.) I, through lack of practice or skill, debated poorly, but believe that I presented a few verifiable facts that he was unaware of. However, I suspect that I may have presented them so weakly that he will not bother to look them up and consider them. (Again, perhaps I do not give him sufficient credit, and in this case I hope that I am wrong.) In any case, my perception was that from the start of the debate we had hardened our positions so that we were setting out to win rather than to learn, to compromise, or even really to educate. As a result, the whole debate could be construed as "a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing". (No offense is intended to my worthy opponent. I am willing to allow the title of "idiot" to rest solely upon my own head.)
The lesson here — you’re never going to convince the other guy to completely change his opinion 180 degrees. If you can find some area where both parties have some thoughts, but neither is dogmatic, then that is where you’ll find a fruitful discussion (rather than a debate). One of you might even change your opinion. Best of all, it might be you (or me). Wouldn’t that be nice?
PS: I’ll likely talk about my second political discussion and why it was so much less contentious in a later post. I’d talk about it here, but I’ve been told my posts are too long.